Free Retiree Podcast Episode Season 1 Episode 76 - Success Mindset

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨…
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𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙢𝙨.

Success to a lot of people means:

High paying job.

The career that parents wanted them to have.

A certain amount of money or net worth.

Nice car and house.

Title or status.

Beach body.

We have all been condition from when we were young, perhaps not always intentionally, but in some cases extremely targeted (advertising, media, social media and culture) on who to 'be'.

The other problem is all those things listed above are not permanent and can be taken away quickly.

We either feel like we are lacking if we aren’t there,

Or we get there and fear losing it,

Or we keep chasing after we get there.

Don’t get me wrong, those are fine things to aspire to if that is truly what you want at your core.

But start by asking what it is that you truly want aside from the influence of everything we've been told to want in life.

For me, it’s freedom, and having lots of money doesn’t...

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Build yourself a 'To Be' list instead of a 'To Do' list

Imagine it is 5 years from now and you are living your dream future.

You have financial abundance.

Your relationships are pristine.

You are doing what you absolutely LOVE to do as your career or
business.

You live in a perpetual state of gratitude and joy.

Opportunity seems to just come to you rather than you chasing
opportunities.

You are healthier than you have ever been.

You are stronger mentally and physically than you have ever been.

Now, make a list of characteristics that your future ‘you’ has.

How can you start ‘to be’ more like this person of 5 years from now?

Instead of making a ‘to do’ list for the week, make yourself a ‘TO BE’ list.
Be more:

Abundant
Giving
Understanding
Patient
Grateful
Open minded
Compassionate
Courageous
Humble
Disciplined
Loyal
Visionary
Influential
Confident
Consistent

Start ‘to be’ more like the person you want to be in this dream future right now and you’ll start do move in the direction of ‘having’...

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Why people struggle with the attainment of success

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨…
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𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙢𝙨.

Success to a lot of people means:

High paying job.

The career that parents wanted them to have.

A certain amount of money or net worth.

Nice car and house.

Title or status.

Beach body.

We have all been condition from when we were young, perhaps not always intentionally, but in some cases extremely targeted (advertising, media, social media and culture) on who to 'be'.

The other problem is all those things listed above are not permanent and can be taken away quickly.

We either feel like we are lacking if we aren’t there,

Or we get there and fear losing it,

Or we keep chasing after we get there.

Don’t get me wrong, those are fine things to aspire to if that is truly what you want at your core.

But start by asking what it is that you truly want aside from the influence of everything we've been told to want in life.

For me, it’s freedom, and having lots of money doesn’t...

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The best post I've ever seen on LinkedIn

This post is from Lea Turner, an amazing coach who has created a highly successful coaching business on LinkedIn. 

She wrote: 

"today I sent the most empowering text of my life and it's costing me around £40k.

My son has never met his father. It wasn’t my choice for it to be that way, but it isn’t a decision I regret being made.

I hold no anger towards the situation, but today I sent a message severing him from any further financial responsibility.

Because he needs the money more than we do.

It felt really, really good.

(And it has only been possible because of LinkedIn and the incredible community here)"

I love this on so many levels, especially because Leah changed the conditions instead of adapting to them. 

It's not easy to do, and sometimes it's not right, but I can't imagine the feeling she had sending this text message out. 

We are all capable of changing our conditions instead of adapting to them. 

We are...

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How to start with meditation if you don't know where to start

The number one reason I meditate (and there are several more), is it helps me to run extremely efficiently.

I've shared my schedule in posts before and I can get an extraordinary amount of things done in a day and not feel rushed.

It gives me more clarity and focus.

Stress and anxiety is virtually non existent for me.

It helps me not think about 'all the things I have to do'.

Instead of worrying, I have the feeling of 'whatever needs to get done... will'.

I have abundance in how I perceive time, which is fascinating because a lot of people don't meditate because they don't want to give up time to do 'nothing'.

The time I invest in meditation actually creates more time by helping me be more efficient, and feel less rushed.

It also helps me to savor the smallest things by being more present.

There are more reasons but the last one I'll say is it extremely pleasant, I can literally feel Seratonin (love, gratitude chemical) drop into my body.

There is no question that meditation has grown...

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The dangers of chronic busy-ness

I want to challenge you on how you view time (and time management).

There is a big difference between being productive and being ‘busy’.

Productivity is quantifiable.

Busy is just a feeling, and a feeling of lack.

Think about all the people that have vast sums of money but never feel like they have enough, or always worried that it will be taken away.

Time is the same way.

We live in an age of more convenience & tools for efficiency than ever, but are people are any less busy?

If you live in what I call a ‘chronic state of busy-ness’, you are worried about things that haven’t happened yet, therefore thinking about the future and not the now.

Time seems to go by so fast.

Kids grow up in a blink of an eye.

You knock off massive checklists, but it does not feel like you are going anywhere.

When someone asks, ‘how are you?’, you respond ‘busy’.

Most of my days contain the following:

Breathwork

Meditation

Workout

Exercise

Cold...

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You'll never have to worry about your income if you do this:

When I started in sales back in 2013, I discovered a mindset that helped me to always have more than enough income and it has become a guiding principle for me ever since.

Sales often has a reputation for being:

Sleazy

Aggressive

Pushy

High pressure

Often in sales, reps put themselves first and do whatever it takes to make the deal happen and it often isn’t in the best interest of the client.

They call this ‘Commission breath’, and it stinks.

I started telling this to my clients:

“If I truly put you first, I’ll never have to worry about my paycheck”.

But I didn’t just say it, I did it.

I stopped worrying about my paycheck and just focused on truly putting my clients first.

And the money just rolled in.

Years later, I could tell my clients that this has always worked for me, if I put them first and I wouldn’t need to worry about my income.

Saying this to your clients is a major way to build trust (so long as its sincere).

Last night in...

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Whole CEO Podcast: How To Be Like A Freight Train - Impossible To Derail with Simon Parsons

To be unstoppable is a matter of attitude and mindset.

Join me as Simon Parsons shares how a morning routine can set you up with so much power so that you will be limitless.

He also reveals how to use his special sauce to boost your immune system to grab momentum to start your day.

He also discusses on how to discover your limiting beliefs and how to bust through them so that you can overcome them.

Don’t miss this episode!

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The Ambitions Life Podcast: Get Control Of Your Mind with Simon Parsons

Are you looking for a crash course in mind control?

If you are, then Episode #6 with Simon Parsons provides that crash course How does Simon control his mind?

Living and breathing Gratitude, seeing Money as a great mindset teacher, knowing the difference between Perspective and comparison and How Living a #fullsend life can help us cure the feeling of "I'm not enough".

There is a shortlist of people who pushed me to start this podcast and live a full send life.

Simon is at the top of that list.

**The book I mentioned is A Mind of its Own by Cordelia Fine *

**We did use a few swear words through parts of this but I left them in for emphasis.

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InJoy Success Podcast Episode #137 with Simon Parsons: Thriving and Going Full Send

injoy podcast simon parsons Jun 18, 2021

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Simon - is a Thrive Coach and Senior Sales Rep with the Fortune 500 Company CHG HealthCare

Simon is a former competitive cyclist, DJ and martial artist turned Growth Mindset coach. In his younger years, he imagined himself living a very average life until he got a job at the Salt Lake Country club where he worked among some of the most affluent people in the state of Utah. It was there that he gained a passion for mindset and personal development as learned from several mentors, that thinking like a millionaire was something that anyone can do.  

Still, there would be ups and downs ahead for Simon as he built 2 businesses that thrived and then failed. Defeated by entrepreneurship, Simon did what he always feared and joined the corporate world as a sales rep for a Fortune 500 company. This turned out to be a blessing and again he thrived in sales, achieving the coveted President's Club award in 7 out of 7 years. His...

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